Iâd that by avoiding going to her desk but sheâs the one that comes to my desk and smiles and look at my eyes
Whenever our eyes looks at each other thatâs where trouble begins and we stand in front of each other and I can feel the whole office watching us talking
You can overlook all that as her being over friendly. But instead you seem to interpret it as sheâs giving you mixed signals
You seem to be in love with her.
Which is something an emotion one canât help
Theyâre probably judging yall lol
But you can avoid getting into trouble
Yeah, thatâs not two just friends coworkers looking at each other
Her bf is going to end up showing up at your place đ to have a word with you at this rate
He does have that featured turned on in the đ
You right I wish if thereâs a healthy way to get over her but the only time my ex fiancĂ© isnât on my mind is when she is in the picture
That is crazy and controlling
Itâs not controlling to have that feature on. What if the person went missing? lol itâs actually useful..
You just have to find whatâs right and works for you to really close that chapter in your story
Is it? He doesnât seem to be using it for that purpose
Someone advised me theyâve shelters for women in her situation but I doubt she would wanna go there she showed me her bank account itâs literally -$350
Well considering sheâs there receiving back rubs by guys at work and lying to him about who sheâs spending 30 mins talking to in the parking lot. Iâm guessing he has his reasons :
For that reason, sure. But others, thereâs just no freedom with that
That message was before they got together it was during their breakup
Thatâs not a reason to control someone. You should not be with someone you donât trust, to start with. But thatâs another debate
He already did 7 months ago he tried to fight me in the parking lot
Thatâs her biz if she really wants a clean start and away from DV, she needs to make better and right decisions in her life
Some ppl just want total control
Thatâs what I told her turn off find iPhone but she said he keeps putting it back on
Maybe she has it on for him too lol
It all sounds crazy to me
I wouldnât want that person near me
She has choices. Itâs whether or not she wants to make those tough decisions and just break off things with him
She apologized the night her boyfriend tried to fight me in the parking lot
You two getting close is the reason
Idk why dude tried to fight me but it was whatever he said I looked at him âfunnyâ
I guess looking at the dude for 3 seconds like any normal human being is funny
Because you give his gf back rubs and meddle in their relationship
He might be checking her phone messages too
We donât talk outside of work at all except once in a while
And youâve been giving her attn that you shouldnât be because sheâs with him
I had a girlfriend during that time
So donât say you donât know. You do, you and her just donât think itâs a big deal
You canât trust any of them
I didnât even look at her as more than a friend during that time
No but the thought did occur
Are you capable of finding someone who isnât already taken or is she your only option
Well. Donât look for excuses.
You know itâs not right
Sheâs not his only option
I got options itâs just Iâve known her for 3 yrs and half
She knows everything about my ex fiancé
Just cuz she knows about her doesnât make her THE candidate
