What's the best way to meet quality men?
I was using the dating apps because I am not really a social person.
Depends on your area really. If itâs a small town, itâll definitely be more challenging. But just attend any social events that are running in your area. Attending a workshop about something that you like doing is always a plus đ„°đ„°đ„°
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For me the best way to find them was not to look
There's always been an overabundance here
Regardless of which approach you take, remember to always top up on that self love đ„°đ„°đ„°
Itâs complicated Iâm getting mixed signals from a coworker and idk if she likes me or being friendly
Thereâs evidence that she likes me but I wanna make sure Iâm reading the right signs
I would not recommend workplace romance
Agree. Sheâs probably just being friendly.
If itâs complicated and you two havenât been seeing each other đ€ one can only imagine how much complicated itâll be when you are together đłđłđł just messing with yâall đ€đ€đ€đ does your workplace even allow colleagues dating amongst the company? You might wanna check that company rule policy first. And on that note, I donât recommend coworkers getting romantically involved with workplace colleagues. And for several reasons. Unless if one of you arenât working at the same place anymore sh...
âŠshould you proceed if the signs are there. Otherwise, move on to someone else who isnât your workplace colleague đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»đ«¶đ»
Itâs complicated because she just got back with her ex boyfriend who cheated on her but she still talks trash about him and I canât be with her because I gotta marry someone from my hometown but I like it when she touches my shoulders, arms, and grabs my hands or when we lock contact
Eyes the contact or when I go to her desk and put my hands around her shoulders and she doesnât say anything or doesnât leave an inch when I get close to her so I think she might like me idk
Sounds like this is already outside of appropriate work relationship
You have to marry someone from your hometown, is that something you implemented for yourself or your family did for you? đ€
I was going to say the same
âI gotta marry someoneâ
And is she not from your hometown? Or she is? đ€ just kinda random that you talk about her and then jump to marriage requirements
Iâm an Egyptian who grew up in Texas but since Iâm a Christian Egyptian Iâm required to marry someone from my hometown
She even made jokes about meeting my mom and my mom not giving her blessing because sheâs not Egyptian lol she joked twice about it idk all I know is I care about her a lot
Yâall seem to think sheâs just being friendly so Iâm probably overreacting thatâs all
Itâs weird she got back with her ex and talks trash about him at the same time while leading you on keeping you on the backburner. Do yourself a favor and meet someone better
Itâs not a back burner when I made it clear I canât have a relationship with her so sheâs definitely not doing that lol
She got back with her ex because she was basically homeless with 3 kids on her own
And she talks trash about him because he cheated on her and she basically doesnât trust him but feels like she gotta be with her for the sake of the kids
Sounds like he canât trust her either, lol since sheâs admittedly just using him while flirting with coworkers. Too much baggage
Sheâs not flirting with coworkers lol Iâm the only guy she acts like that with
Plus sheâs probably just being friendly
On Thursday we were talking outside for 30 mins during our lunch and her boyfriend has find iPhone on so he can see that her phone moved from the locker to outside in the parkiso he calls her 8 times And when she answers he tells her I know youâre outside with a dude for 30 mins which she was talking to me outside but she basically no I was with a girl and he started cussing her out And says Iâll beat you up when you get home I told her turn off your find iPhone she said he always turns back on
No just the baby the other 2 kids arenât his
Still, she should know better not to âbite the hand that feeds herâ meaning, if she decided going back to her ex knowing what kind of person he is, she should be grateful that heâs taken her and the kiddos back. If sheâs talking bad behind his backâŠwhat makes you think if you do get involved with her that she wouldnât be bad mouthing you
And maybe the reason why you care so much for her is because sheâs made herself a case to vent with you. Hence, you feel like you need to help her in some way. But in reality, itâs best that you donât get involved. Let her solve her own problems. Sheâs an adult with three kiddos
^ Basically everything they said. Sounds like she has a pattern of âbad mistakesâ if sheâs on her 2nd or 3rd âbaby daddyâ and I doubt itâll end there
Her character sounds questionable too. Why would she lie and say sheâs speaking to a woman when she isnât and involve anyone else in that kind of drama. She just sounds overall irresponsible :
Yeah, doesnât sound very responsible IMO with her words and actions
Also, all the behaviors youâve described happening at work sounds inappropriate to me. I doubt sheâs naive to it. She knows itâs flattering you. Sorry, she just sounds manipulative to me. She shows you one side of herself and her current bf another side of her Iâm sure and as long as she keeps the âhelpless victim act goingâ sheâs never the problem
You also say she only does this with you. Itâs rarely exclusive like that. If she can go home to her bf and share a bed with him every night and then go to work and act affectionate with you and lie to her bf.. what makes you think she canât play you just as well?
Iâve made a case to vent to her about my ex fiancĂ© and my recent ex I also share my issues with her and she gives me advices as well so weâve been there for each other
I even thanked her about getting me through a tough day so she definitely helps me as much as I help her lol
I mean you arenât even trying to mask your feelings so Iâm sure she can tell. Maybe youâll get lucky and youâll be the fourth baby daddy
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