What's the best way to meet quality men?
I was using the dating apps because I am not really a social person.
Depends on your area really. If itโs a small town, itโll definitely be more challenging. But just attend any social events that are running in your area. Attending a workshop about something that you like doing is always a plus ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
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Good luck ๐ค๐ป and have fun! ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
For me the best way to find them was not to look
There's always been an overabundance here
Regardless of which approach you take, remember to always top up on that self love ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ๐ฅฐ
Itโs complicated Iโm getting mixed signals from a coworker and idk if she likes me or being friendly
Thereโs evidence that she likes me but I wanna make sure Iโm reading the right signs
I would not recommend workplace romance
Agree. Sheโs probably just being friendly.
If itโs complicated and you two havenโt been seeing each other ๐ค one can only imagine how much complicated itโll be when you are together ๐ณ๐ณ๐ณ just messing with yโall ๐คญ๐คญ๐คญ๐ does your workplace even allow colleagues dating amongst the company? You might wanna check that company rule policy first. And on that note, I donโt recommend coworkers getting romantically involved with workplace colleagues. And for several reasons. Unless if one of you arenโt working at the same place anymore sh...
โฆshould you proceed if the signs are there. Otherwise, move on to someone else who isnโt your workplace colleague ๐ซถ๐ป๐ซถ๐ป๐ซถ๐ป
Itโs complicated because she just got back with her ex boyfriend who cheated on her but she still talks trash about him and I canโt be with her because I gotta marry someone from my hometown but I like it when she touches my shoulders, arms, and grabs my hands or when we lock contact
Eyes the contact or when I go to her desk and put my hands around her shoulders and she doesnโt say anything or doesnโt leave an inch when I get close to her so I think she might like me idk
Sounds like this is already outside of appropriate work relationship
You have to marry someone from your hometown, is that something you implemented for yourself or your family did for you? ๐ค
I was going to say the same
โI gotta marry someoneโ
And is she not from your hometown? Or she is? ๐ค just kinda random that you talk about her and then jump to marriage requirements
Iโm an Egyptian who grew up in Texas but since Iโm a Christian Egyptian Iโm required to marry someone from my hometown
She even made jokes about meeting my mom and my mom not giving her blessing because sheโs not Egyptian lol she joked twice about it idk all I know is I care about her a lot
Yโall seem to think sheโs just being friendly so Iโm probably overreacting thatโs all
Itโs weird she got back with her ex and talks trash about him at the same time while leading you on keeping you on the backburner. Do yourself a favor and meet someone better
Itโs not a back burner when I made it clear I canโt have a relationship with her so sheโs definitely not doing that lol
She got back with her ex because she was basically homeless with 3 kids on her own
And she talks trash about him because he cheated on her and she basically doesnโt trust him but feels like she gotta be with her for the sake of the kids
Sounds like he canโt trust her either, lol since sheโs admittedly just using him while flirting with coworkers. Too much baggage
Sheโs not flirting with coworkers lol Iโm the only guy she acts like that with
Plus sheโs probably just being friendly
On Thursday we were talking outside for 30 mins during our lunch and her boyfriend has find iPhone on so he can see that her phone moved from the locker to outside in the parkiso he calls her 8 times And when she answers he tells her I know youโre outside with a dude for 30 mins which she was talking to me outside but she basically no I was with a girl and he started cussing her out And says Iโll beat you up when you get home I told her turn off your find iPhone she said he always turns back on
No just the baby the other 2 kids arenโt his
Still, she should know better not to โbite the hand that feeds herโ meaning, if she decided going back to her ex knowing what kind of person he is, she should be grateful that heโs taken her and the kiddos back. If sheโs talking bad behind his backโฆwhat makes you think if you do get involved with her that she wouldnโt be bad mouthing you
And maybe the reason why you care so much for her is because sheโs made herself a case to vent with you. Hence, you feel like you need to help her in some way. But in reality, itโs best that you donโt get involved. Let her solve her own problems. Sheโs an adult with three kiddos
^ Basically everything they said. Sounds like she has a pattern of โbad mistakesโ if sheโs on her 2nd or 3rd โbaby daddyโ and I doubt itโll end there
Her character sounds questionable too. Why would she lie and say sheโs speaking to a woman when she isnโt and involve anyone else in that kind of drama. She just sounds overall irresponsible :
Yeah, doesnโt sound very responsible IMO with her words and actions
Also, all the behaviors youโve described happening at work sounds inappropriate to me. I doubt sheโs naive to it. She knows itโs flattering you. Sorry, she just sounds manipulative to me. She shows you one side of herself and her current bf another side of her Iโm sure and as long as she keeps the โhelpless victim act goingโ sheโs never the problem
You also say she only does this with you. Itโs rarely exclusive like that. If she can go home to her bf and share a bed with him every night and then go to work and act affectionate with you and lie to her bf.. what makes you think she canโt play you just as well?
Iโve made a case to vent to her about my ex fiancรฉ and my recent ex I also share my issues with her and she gives me advices as well so weโve been there for each other
I even thanked her about getting me through a tough day so she definitely helps me as much as I help her lol
I mean you arenโt even trying to mask your feelings so Iโm sure she can tell. Maybe youโll get lucky and youโll be the fourth baby daddy
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