Iād that by avoiding going to her desk but sheās the one that comes to my desk and smiles and look at my eyes
Whenever our eyes looks at each other thatās where trouble begins and we stand in front of each other and I can feel the whole office watching us talking
You can overlook all that as her being over friendly. But instead you seem to interpret it as sheās giving you mixed signals
You seem to be in love with her.
Which is something an emotion one canāt help
Theyāre probably judging yall lol
But you can avoid getting into trouble
Yeah, thatās not two just friends coworkers looking at each other
Her bf is going to end up showing up at your place š to have a word with you at this rate
He does have that featured turned on in the š
You right I wish if thereās a healthy way to get over her but the only time my ex fiancĆ© isnāt on my mind is when she is in the picture
That is crazy and controlling
Itās not controlling to have that feature on. What if the person went missing? lol itās actually useful..
You just have to find whatās right and works for you to really close that chapter in your story
Is it? He doesnāt seem to be using it for that purpose
Someone advised me theyāve shelters for women in her situation but I doubt she would wanna go there she showed me her bank account itās literally -$350
Well considering sheās there receiving back rubs by guys at work and lying to him about who sheās spending 30 mins talking to in the parking lot. Iām guessing he has his reasons :
For that reason, sure. But others, thereās just no freedom with that
That message was before they got together it was during their breakup
Thatās not a reason to control someone. You should not be with someone you donāt trust, to start with. But thatās another debate
He already did 7 months ago he tried to fight me in the parking lot
Thatās her biz if she really wants a clean start and away from DV, she needs to make better and right decisions in her life
Some ppl just want total control
Thatās what I told her turn off find iPhone but she said he keeps putting it back on
Maybe she has it on for him too lol
It all sounds crazy to me
I wouldnāt want that person near me
She has choices. Itās whether or not she wants to make those tough decisions and just break off things with him
She apologized the night her boyfriend tried to fight me in the parking lot
You two getting close is the reason
Idk why dude tried to fight me but it was whatever he said I looked at him āfunnyā
I guess looking at the dude for 3 seconds like any normal human being is funny
Because you give his gf back rubs and meddle in their relationship
He might be checking her phone messages too
We donāt talk outside of work at all except once in a while
And youāve been giving her attn that you shouldnāt be because sheās with him
I had a girlfriend during that time
So donāt say you donāt know. You do, you and her just donāt think itās a big deal
You canāt trust any of them
I didnāt even look at her as more than a friend during that time
No but the thought did occur
Are you capable of finding someone who isnāt already taken or is she your only option
Well. Donāt look for excuses.
You know itās not right
Sheās not his only option
I got options itās just Iāve known her for 3 yrs and half
She knows everything about my ex fiancƩ
Just cuz she knows about her doesnāt make her THE candidate
