>>> Could be. And then you have those who just...
Yeah having no one to talk to in real life
Like I am the only person who is there for me
I tried online dating but always get ghosted for no reason especially whem everything is going well
There's a huge void in my life
But is your loneliness social or romantic?
Nothing can replace f2f. Online can serve a short term purpose for it
Sorry to hear. If you need a friend, I’m here for yah 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Between the things I've lived through and the things that I'm interested and love.....I'm just kinda isolated in a way. A way I've learned to accept for the most part I think
Im here because atm, I dont get to have to have these sort of convos in real life.
I experience what I think of as pseudo loneliness
You should block those that ghost you 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 it’s not you, it’s them
>>> But is your loneliness social or romantic?
Both am very shy so when I go into social settings people don't seem to notice me
Online guys seem interested and promise to meet me only to ghost
>>> Sorry to hear. If you need a friend, I’m h...
Thanks
Maybe you dodged a bullet 🤷
Mabey I did
But it kinda feels horrible not to be seen, loved, appreciated
Am not perfect but I try to treat everyone like I would myself
No one is perfect. Only those who they they are, they are only fooling themselves
I understand that wanting to experience love ❤️ is a human need.
But it can’t be our ultimate goal
You also need to know that just cuz you treat others who you would want to be treated, not everyone will treat you with the same (respect)
It will happen or not, I think it’s important to focus on other things that aré important too
Why not take this time to focus on yourself? And be the better version of you every day?
There’s health, family, friends, job, trips, hobbies, food to eat, places to discover, music, books to read….
Should you treat others the way you want to be treated or
the way they want to be treated or
the way they treat you?
And when you start to expect less, the less you’ll be disappointed 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
>>> Why not take this time to focus on yoursel...
I've been focusing on myself all my life
I've never dated or been in a relationship before and am 30
Grew up I a strict home where dating wasn't allowed went to university and didn't date
So the only love I've ever received is from my mom and dad.
>>> And when you start to expect less, the les...
True
Your upbringing didn’t help, that’s true
But online dating isn’t going to help you, I think
Can I get a little advice to anyone here about relationship thats uplifting
I'd suggest treating people how you'd like to be treated, but having boundaries. The other options don't sound very healthy or helpful in the long run, imo
You’re the one thing that is constant in your life. And you never stop topping up on self love or focusing on yourself
What about your friends C
>>> Your upbringing didn’t help, that’s true
Yeah I see that now
My parents were trying to protect me I guess
Yeah, being conditioned like that doesn’t help either
Feel free to say what you want Meowcat
Time to start discovering 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 discovering who you really are
I'm confused by that as well
Can you be a bit more specific?
I don’t have any magic 🪄 recipe against loneliness. Sorry fish.
I've never seen anything that wasn't, in here, overall
When you’re in love. Truly in love, it’s really a magical and grateful feeling to be in 🥰🥰🥰 how’s that for uplifting?
So I have an online bf and we have been on and off. Tried doing couples therapy trying to "fix" things between us. We saw each other twice already. He is very shy type so the bedroom life isn't rly exciting. He made me wait for him for months trying to actually get intimate with me when we see each other next time. All of a sudden he changed his mind telling me he doesnt wanna do thing like that anymore. So I got pissed off blocked him and told him Im done
Hey Darklightworker, do u about reiki? what do u think about it? I just discovered it recently only, the reiki asmr stuff, it feels sooo good. I tired the ordinry asmr of just technical sound mixing but it didnt give me the same level of satisfaction as a reiki asmr
I've not tried it myself, but have always heard great things about it
something felt mixing in all the usual asmr sounds. One guy dalton is great tho
Some ppl come into our lives and just reminds us what we DO NOT WANT
