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Leaving it like this they think its open to have full access and open to come back anytime

He sounds toxic

And full healing cant begin if he can ruin it anytime

That’s what I did , after the break up I immediately removed him from all my socials and also my socials are always private

We broke up on February and after that he tried to contact me on April he sent me a post on tikt@k , I was shocked cause I’ve already broken up with you duhhh!! , and now your sending me this post it was a post says “I hope we always find way back together “ .. and I’ve ignored him .. and now two days ago this happened when he saw me

But he should already know that we are done! , cause I’ve removed you and I confronted you when I broked up with u

Part of me yes but my mind says NO of what he did

But I’m confused when he saw me ive ignored all his calls and texts .. but why he sent me a friend request and went quiet? And till now he didn’t cancel it !

He wants to see if he still matters in your life and to keep control over u

To stress u out to ask these questions and keep your attention cause u are probably doing well in life , and that means he has no access to u and to feed his ego of feeli g he owns u and Noyone else can

Blocking is better

N he dont care what u want or do , he has a need for u now cause he has noyone else to forfill it

The good part is I’ve never chased him whether I’m right or wrong to feed his ego

Btw what I felt when I was with him He has ego that’s why I didn’t expect from him that at all , I mean the callings n double texts following friend request I felt that he was blowing up

I didn’t block him cause usually I’m type of person who don’t block and also I don’t want to give any reaction

I think he will stop it now cause I’ve ignored all his attempts and he did nothing after sending the request, I think he quit.. or what is ur advice?

If there isnt anyone else , he will continue

If there is up to now

Like right now i mean , he will leave u alone

Or be busy trying others

You mean he is not completely done?

Also, I don’t want to give him any sort of reaction. I kept his request—am I on the right track?

Not going full no contact means u are trauma bonded

U are allowing him to tru things also

Try *^

no reaction but allowing him into your space he knows he can do it still , so he thinks he has half a chance

And u are worried about what he is doing this whole time

So in reality he is stressing u

I get it u arent ready to let go fully

But this will continue

As long as u dont block

He may hoover even after the block and maybe in person as well till u make him give up

Or someone else takes him right now

No contact is the way to go here which is blocking and living for yourself , not waiting for him and worrying or stressing what he will do next or not and figuring it out

Stressing about *^

When u are ready u need to do this

Its not about what he thinks , it is about what u need to do to move forward in your healing attaining your peace and happiness without him

In that equation

U cant do that if he has access to harrass u

I don’t know if I will block cause usually I don’t do it in general, but the good thing he doesn’t have any access to my social media accounts.. usually I keep it private

Me ignoring him , I Hope he gets triggered and move on

He cant dm u ? But he is contacting u still

In the meantime u are being triggered

N u are letting him to call and harrass u

So my question to u is why ?

Really why

Its ok u arent ready to move on and take charge of your whole life , but i hope u heal more and do things that dont allow him fully in anymore or feel like he can at all !

Most exes hoover u back

Speaking from years of experience , he needs something from u atm still-access to socials and communication , he will try somewhere or thru a friend next so , stay strong and ignore , and stay safe if he is a in person ex

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