im not an unattractive girl. im confused what happened?
its fairly new. its been this way for a few months.
he was like a sexual deviant in the beginning.
yeah i understand that completely. but he hasnt said anything for me to change when ive asked what i could do to make him happier with me? he just says "you make me as happy as ive ever been." and thats the end of the conversation?
we didnt begin dating based on appearance, it was on experiences and on an emotional level :
and thats the thing, before the baby we had time to go on dates and adventures and the bedroom stuffdidnt even matter because we had more than that. but it was still lacking nonetheless. now after the baby all of it has slowed down (which was to be expected) but its almost completely stopped. we do nothing together. its like roommates now.
my mother in law and my own mother help with the kid a lot. we usually have at least 2 days a week with just me and him and we still do nothing.
i shower him with compliments and praise.
i know how important compliments are to men, especially because they are often overlooked on that level.
thats a good idea krissy!
i do so much for him. i even quit my job to be a SAHM for him because he said childcare is more expensive than just me staying home. ive given up my individuality for him and our child. i just dont know what more to do.
im not competing im simply stating i sacrificed things for his greater good, to make him happier. thats all
im beginning to feel that maybe i should cut my losses and just co parent as youve said. it seems we arent getting anywhere.
he has a good paying job, he works the same hours as he did when i was working.
he didnt gain any financial stress with me quitting, it actually took the stress away from him. im not an expensive woman, i dont demand money or anything from him after quitting. so its all a bit confusing. i think we might need to take a break for awhile and see if maybe thatll show if we grew apart or we really do love and need eachother
i thought maybe the baby weight was the issue or turnoff but after having her the weight basically shed off. if anything it only gave me weight in more flattering places haha
he always drives, he opens my door for me, he is a gentleman at heart. he just doesnt seem to prioritize my feelings physically or emotionally
ive had like thoughts about what it would taste like but ive never actually considered, and the thought itself grosses me out
i couldnt imagine actually trying that
