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What's the best way to meet quality men? I was using the dating apps because I am not really a social person.

Depends on your area really. If it’s a small town, it’ll definitely be more challenging. But just attend any social events that are running in your area. Attending a workshop about something that you like doing is always a plus 🥰🥰🥰

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Good luck 🤞🏻 and have fun! 🥰🥰🥰

For me the best way to find them was not to look

There's always been an overabundance here

Regardless of which approach you take, remember to always top up on that self love 🥰🥰🥰

Hey can I get an advice

Ask away 😌😌😌

It’s complicated I’m getting mixed signals from a coworker and idk if she likes me or being friendly

There’s evidence that she likes me but I wanna make sure I’m reading the right signs

I would not recommend workplace romance

Agree. She’s probably just being friendly.

If it’s complicated and you two haven’t been seeing each other 🤔 one can only imagine how much complicated it’ll be when you are together 😳😳😳 just messing with y’all 🤭🤭🤭👀 does your workplace even allow colleagues dating amongst the company? You might wanna check that company rule policy first. And on that note, I don’t recommend coworkers getting romantically involved with workplace colleagues. And for several reasons. Unless if one of you aren’t working at the same place anymore sh...

…should you proceed if the signs are there. Otherwise, move on to someone else who isn’t your workplace colleague 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

It’s complicated because she just got back with her ex boyfriend who cheated on her but she still talks trash about him and I can’t be with her because I gotta marry someone from my hometown but I like it when she touches my shoulders, arms, and grabs my hands or when we lock contact

Eyes the contact or when I go to her desk and put my hands around her shoulders and she doesn’t say anything or doesn’t leave an inch when I get close to her so I think she might like me idk

Sounds like this is already outside of appropriate work relationship

You have to marry someone from your hometown, is that something you implemented for yourself or your family did for you? 🤔

I was going to say the same

“I gotta marry someone”

That is strange

And is she not from your hometown? Or she is? 🤔 just kinda random that you talk about her and then jump to marriage requirements

I’m an Egyptian who grew up in Texas but since I’m a Christian Egyptian I’m required to marry someone from my hometown

She even made jokes about meeting my mom and my mom not giving her blessing because she’s not Egyptian lol she joked twice about it idk all I know is I care about her a lot

Y’all seem to think she’s just being friendly so I’m probably overreacting that’s all

It’s weird she got back with her ex and talks trash about him at the same time while leading you on keeping you on the backburner. Do yourself a favor and meet someone better

It’s not a back burner when I made it clear I can’t have a relationship with her so she’s definitely not doing that lol

She got back with her ex because she was basically homeless with 3 kids on her own

And she talks trash about him because he cheated on her and she basically doesn’t trust him but feels like she gotta be with her for the sake of the kids

Sounds like he can’t trust her either, lol since she’s admittedly just using him while flirting with coworkers. Too much baggage

She’s not flirting with coworkers lol I’m the only guy she acts like that with

Plus she’s probably just being friendly

Are all 3 kids his

On Thursday we were talking outside for 30 mins during our lunch and her boyfriend has find iPhone on so he can see that her phone moved from the locker to outside in the parkiso he calls her 8 times And when she answers he tells her I know you’re outside with a dude for 30 mins which she was talking to me outside but she basically no I was with a girl and he started cussing her out And says I’ll beat you up when you get home I told her turn off your find iPhone she said he always turns back on

No just the baby the other 2 kids aren’t his

Still, she should know better not to “bite the hand that feeds her” meaning, if she decided going back to her ex knowing what kind of person he is, she should be grateful that he’s taken her and the kiddos back. If she’s talking bad behind his back…what makes you think if you do get involved with her that she wouldn’t be bad mouthing you

And maybe the reason why you care so much for her is because she’s made herself a case to vent with you. Hence, you feel like you need to help her in some way. But in reality, it’s best that you don’t get involved. Let her solve her own problems. She’s an adult with three kiddos

^ Basically everything they said. Sounds like she has a pattern of “bad mistakes” if she’s on her 2nd or 3rd “baby daddy” and I doubt it’ll end there

Her character sounds questionable too. Why would she lie and say she’s speaking to a woman when she isn’t and involve anyone else in that kind of drama. She just sounds overall irresponsible :

Yeah, doesn’t sound very responsible IMO with her words and actions

Also, all the behaviors you’ve described happening at work sounds inappropriate to me. I doubt she’s naive to it. She knows it’s flattering you. Sorry, she just sounds manipulative to me. She shows you one side of herself and her current bf another side of her I’m sure and as long as she keeps the “helpless victim act going” she’s never the problem

You also say she only does this with you. It’s rarely exclusive like that. If she can go home to her bf and share a bed with him every night and then go to work and act affectionate with you and lie to her bf.. what makes you think she can’t play you just as well?

I’ve made a case to vent to her about my ex fiancé and my recent ex I also share my issues with her and she gives me advices as well so we’ve been there for each other

I even thanked her about getting me through a tough day so she definitely helps me as much as I help her lol

I mean you aren’t even trying to mask your feelings so I’m sure she can tell. Maybe you’ll get lucky and you’ll be the fourth baby daddy

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