I didn’t even know that was a profession! That sounds really cool
That’s a fair point I can’t argue!
Yeah, I’ve heard it’s body breaking work! My dad was an electrician and I grew up in Louisiana. Some summers I’d haveto help him sign trenches… needless to say I made a bee line for a desk job as soon as I could!
I’m just glad that for the time being we exist in a world with such possibilities that we can all find our own niche with a bit work and luck.
I’m living the dream of doing nothing at work 😂
Doesn’t seem like a lot of people need help or advice here
What research or reading have you done?
There’s lots of good books and podcasts about it
Outside of that, it’s pretty much a crap ton of talking, getting your feelings out in the open, learning coping techniques, learning scheduling etc 😂
Vent about whatgiven your sweet gig 😜
Ah, so what ya gotta get off your chest?
Yeah fomo is hard, how are you at self soothing? Or maybe having your own things to do so you aren’t bored?
lol, well at least you like you are in the right track!
Yeah, most cis het dudes like myself find it near impossible to find partners. That’s kinda why what you should look for is stuff outside of poly that actually bring you personal joy or peace
I get that, it’s so hard making friends as adults these days, it certainly doesn’t help when you’re and introvert like myself 😬
You may broach it with her less as a pain point and more as a connection point, like “hey, I’m struggling coming up with social ideas, do you have any advice you give me or any ideas?”
Asking for help can be just as important in relationship because it shows you trust their opinion and being open with them
It’s less about complaining and just trying to make sure you are getting the help you need to thrive
Spiritual is an interesting phrasing, can you elaborate more on what you mean by that?
What about the topic interests you?
