I didnāt even know that was a profession! That sounds really cool
Thatās a fair point I canāt argue!
Yeah, Iāve heard itās body breaking work! My dad was an electrician and I grew up in Louisiana. Some summers Iād haveto help him sign trenchesā¦ needless to say I made a bee line for a desk job as soon as I could!
Iām just glad that for the time being we exist in a world with such possibilities that we can all find our own niche with a bit work and luck.
Iām living the dream of doing nothing at work š
Doesnāt seem like a lot of people need help or advice here
What research or reading have you done?
Thereās lots of good books and podcasts about it
Outside of that, itās pretty much a crap ton of talking, getting your feelings out in the open, learning coping techniques, learning scheduling etc š
Vent about whatgiven your sweet gig š
Ah, so what ya gotta get off your chest?
Yeah fomo is hard, how are you at self soothing? Or maybe having your own things to do so you arenāt bored?
lol, well at least you like you are in the right track!
Yeah, most cis het dudes like myself find it near impossible to find partners. Thatās kinda why what you should look for is stuff outside of poly that actually bring you personal joy or peace
I get that, itās so hard making friends as adults these days, it certainly doesnāt help when youāre and introvert like myself š¬
You may broach it with her less as a pain point and more as a connection point, like āhey, Iām struggling coming up with social ideas, do you have any advice you give me or any ideas?ā
Asking for help can be just as important in relationship because it shows you trust their opinion and being open with them
Itās less about complaining and just trying to make sure you are getting the help you need to thrive
Spiritual is an interesting phrasing, can you elaborate more on what you mean by that?
What about the topic interests you?
