There’s a guy whose completely into me, like he’s so clingy he shows so much love and care. But the thing is he broke up with his 2yrs relationship a month back. How is it possible for him to completely fall for me
I mean he moved on so easily ?
Yep, sounds like a red flag
Either that 2yrs meant nothing to him 🤷 or towards the end of that 2yrs relationship meant nothing to him
It's like that Olivia redrigos song
As well, when he’s clingy with you now…do you think it’s because he wants to genuinely get to know you kinda clingy? Or he wants to control all aspects of your life kinda clingy? 🤔 cuz there’s a difference
It took you two weeks
To go off and date her
And I know if you were true
There's no damn way that you
Could fall in love with somebody that quickly
Sorry, don’t know the song 🤭🤭🤭👀
No, it’s not normal or relatively normal. That’s foSURE. But maybe he was checked out already with the 2yrs relationship 🤷
Yah never know with some peeps 🤥🤥🤥
The locally hated girly is back y'all
Like he genuinely wants to know me kinda clingy .. and when I ask why he moved on so easily he said his ex cheated on him
I wouldn’t trust anyone who wants to know me so desperately
I don’t wanna be rebound but I can’t help but fall for him
It’s easy to fall for someone who showers you attention
But I think it’s a dangerous trap
Jealousy and possessiveness are hiding in there somewhere
That’s true tho.. I actually think he might be possessive. And I overthink that his ex still might be in his heart and maybe will forever be
>>> Jealousy and possessiveness are hiding in ...
Unfortunately that is far too common
If he’s not properly addressing and healing from it, there is a higher chance that his ex may or may not return 🤷 how do we even really know if what he’s saying to you is all factual 🤷 we don’t. We only know what we are told. Just proceed with caution if you’re really into him and let his actions (or lack of) tell you what kind of person he really is 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻 ppl can lie with words. But with action or not doing something tells more than what is being said
Your responses come off cynical probably from bad experiences.. but wanting to really get to know someone isn’t a bad thing. If they’re putting honest effort into getting to know you and making time to.. that can also be a good sign.
It’s a good sign if his intentions right now are genuine. If not, that’ll be a 🚩
I don’t think it’s cynical when I am clearly expressing my opinion, I am not trying to impose my view as the only possible one.
Trying to get to know someone is fantastic .
She described his behaviour as clingy.
I don’t think that’s a good start.
First impressions are always key ☝🏻
How the person decides to present themselves with others says a lot of what kind of person they are. So some old school ways are still the way to go! 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Their examples of cling was weird and didn’t describe clingy. Just described someone who is interested unless there’s more to that
All they said was “they really want to get to know me and they show me a lot of love and care” lol and labeled that as clingy. Maybe their definition of clingy is different
Showing all that so soon already? It’s a form of love bombing 🤥🤥🤥
Maybe they’ve known each other for a while
Oh lol I had to scroll back. Only a month and completely infatuated with someone else? I guess it can happen, but it def raises some questions
