Thereās a guy whose completely into me, like heās so clingy he shows so much love and care. But the thing is he broke up with his 2yrs relationship a month back. How is it possible for him to completely fall for me
I mean he moved on so easily ?
Yep, sounds like a red flag
Either that 2yrs meant nothing to him 𤷠or towards the end of that 2yrs relationship meant nothing to him
It's like that Olivia redrigos song
As well, when heās clingy with you nowā¦do you think itās because he wants to genuinely get to know you kinda clingy? Or he wants to control all aspects of your life kinda clingy? š¤ cuz thereās a difference
It took you two weeks
To go off and date her
And I know if you were true
There's no damn way that you
Could fall in love with somebody that quickly
Sorry, donāt know the song š¤š¤š¤š
No, itās not normal or relatively normal. Thatās foSURE. But maybe he was checked out already with the 2yrs relationship š¤·
Yah never know with some peeps š¤„š¤„š¤„
The locally hated girly is back y'all
Like he genuinely wants to know me kinda clingy .. and when I ask why he moved on so easily he said his ex cheated on him
I wouldnāt trust anyone who wants to know me so desperately
I donāt wanna be rebound but I canāt help but fall for him
Itās easy to fall for someone who showers you attention
But I think itās a dangerous trap
Jealousy and possessiveness are hiding in there somewhere
Thatās true tho.. I actually think he might be possessive. And I overthink that his ex still might be in his heart and maybe will forever be
>>> Jealousy and possessiveness are hiding in ...
Unfortunately that is far too common
If heās not properly addressing and healing from it, there is a higher chance that his ex may or may not return 𤷠how do we even really know if what heās saying to you is all factual 𤷠we donāt. We only know what we are told. Just proceed with caution if youāre really into him and let his actions (or lack of) tell you what kind of person he really is š«¶š»š«¶š»š«¶š» ppl can lie with words. But with action or not doing something tells more than what is being said
Your responses come off cynical probably from bad experiences.. but wanting to really get to know someone isnāt a bad thing. If theyāre putting honest effort into getting to know you and making time to.. that can also be a good sign.
Itās a good sign if his intentions right now are genuine. If not, thatāll be a š©
I donāt think itās cynical when I am clearly expressing my opinion, I am not trying to impose my view as the only possible one.
Trying to get to know someone is fantastic .
She described his behaviour as clingy.
I donāt think thatās a good start.
First impressions are always key āš»
How the person decides to present themselves with others says a lot of what kind of person they are. So some old school ways are still the way to go! š«¶š»š«¶š»š«¶š»
Their examples of cling was weird and didnāt describe clingy. Just described someone who is interested unless thereās more to that
All they said was āthey really want to get to know me and they show me a lot of love and careā lol and labeled that as clingy. Maybe their definition of clingy is different
Showing all that so soon already? Itās a form of love bombing š¤„š¤„š¤„
Maybe theyāve known each other for a while
Oh lol I had to scroll back. Only a month and completely infatuated with someone else? I guess it can happen, but it def raises some questions
It sure does! šµāš«šµāš«šµāš«