You are 20, you have the rest of your life to meet other people and not be fighting or annoyed
Yes, it seems hard. At the beginning.
Then you will get over it
I think that for a relationship to work we need a set of things to consider
Not just love
What is love supposed to feel like?
One of them is logistics and distance and how often we see each other, and if that is enough for us
It’s enough for him but it’s not for me
That is a very complicated question
Then you’ve got your answer
It’s not about pleasing others
It’s about aligning with someone who matches our energy and needs and can fulfill them
And also the other way around
It’s about being comfortable, feeling valued, understood, cherished, and being a reasonable priority for the other person. Not the only one, of course
It’s difficult in your 20s because many things are going to be decided, like a career, or where to live…. And your personal goals may differ
You might be sacrificing some of your own objectives, for nothing, literally.
My advice is: establish your own priorities and be careful who you allow into your journey.
No unnecessary stress.
It was something I’ve been thinking about. I’m not close with my family like he is so I don’t mind moving away. But I’d be moving away from everyone and everything I’ve ever known. Nothing is affordable either, I’m working on my career he’s still figuring out what he wants to do. So idk, this is my first like real relationship too. Like first everything for the both of us. I used to be able to see a future but now it just seems unattainable.
I wouldn’t see a future with someone who likes arguing with me
We have relationships to learn about people and about ourselves
Moving away from everything you know for someone else at this point you are saying, it seems very risky to me
I mean I trust him, i definitely can handle myself and take care of myself if anything were to happen. Also I won’t put the blame all onto him I’m not perfect either and I do start arguments too.
But we’ll see, it does feel like things are coming to an end tho.
And make sure to know the difference between in love with him vs you care for him 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Thank you so much I appreciate
All the best regardless of the final decision 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
Hi everyone. How are uojall
Hi everyone. How are you all?
I think we should speak in English since everyone else does in this room
Okay. Where are you from?
😑 Entonces entiendes bien el español
Yes, but not the rest of users.
I'm fine. Thanks for asking
I heard a funny but sad story
A scambaiter and scammer fell in love with each other, no trust between them though.
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