I think looking for red flags when you meet or start seeing someone is bad. It makes the start of a relationship about detective work on the other. Instead of looking for good things (which nobody ever says, “green flags,”) Everyone looks for bad from the start.
Everyone should just go with the flow, any issues arise and you can either leave or deal with them. Your life will be less stressful. 😂
Anyone who starts talking about red flags, let’s say on a date, just tell them you don’t believe in hunting negative.
Because, it’s like you’re expecting a problem to occur
So the whole mindset around the relationship start is negative
It’s just destined to be doomed
Maybe they would, maybe that’s one of their red flags. Denying red flag detection 😂
I guess they aren’t for you if they do. There’s plenty of ladies thinking the same as us, don’t worry.
I guess having a mindset of red flags is the issue, I don’t have any red flags in my head. Just things I agree with and things I disagree with. The level of disagreement dictates whether is stay or go.
But I don’t actively have any downers in my head at the start. Or look out for them. But these days, seems like everyone is looking out for the negatives
Probably to be born good, as you wouldn’t have made any evil acts 😂
Messed up, clean break and no contact, I don’t think you can be friends with an ex, unless you have kids with them.
It’s not, I mean there’s over 6 billion people here. Someone will put up with you.
People in relationships tolerate one another, they aren’t matched.
Gf? Ouch dude, how do you feel about that?
I don’t understand? One dimension? As in time, or space? Human will is the reason why people tolerate one another in a relationship. 😂 They will themselves to match with someone aligned to them, but no two people are alike. So it’s about tolerance.
I mean, maybe there’s an element of you knowing that another c**k isn’t there. But don’t start thinking that you made her change to women, that’s bad kosher for the mind. She was always that way, there’s no other explanation. I’m sorry to hear this happened to you.
One train of thought you mean? One dimension is a bit different, but I understand what you mean.
